Before the School Year Starts
Although I am now retired (two months in!), I can’t help but think back to those busy weeks before school started. I used to spend days making sure my classroom looked just right—and yes, it was definitely cute! But over time, I realized the real heart of teaching wasn’t bulletin boards or perfectly arranged desks—it was about creating an inclusive, respectful community and building strong relationships with students.
Now that I’m retired, I don’t miss the late-night lesson planning or the endless stack of papers to grade. But I do miss the energy of the classroom—and most of all, I miss the camaraderie of my colleagues. There’s nothing quite like the shared laughter, support, and problem-solving that comes from being part of a team of teachers.
Building Relationships That Matter
At the very beginning of each school year, my students and I created a class mission statement together. It’s a powerful exercise— everyone’s voice matters, and right from day one we’re shaping the kind of community we want to grow in. You can read more about our step-by-step process HERE.
“When students know that we know them, they are more connected with school, they are more likely to persevere when challenges arise and enjoy school more!” Don Graves suggests completing a chart to get to know your students:
Strong relationships with both students and their families are key to a smooth school year. When parents know you care about their child—and trust that you’re capable—they’re more likely to partner with you.
🌟 Quick Tips for Building Parent Relationships:
Start strong 📞: Call or send a positive note early in the year, highlighting a student’s strength.
Celebrate effort 💪: Recognize growth, kindness, or problem-solving—not just grades.
Be proactive 📅: Share dates, assignments, or projects ahead of time.
Keep it short ✉️: Use email or monthly newsletters or Remind texts for consistent updates.
Make it practical 🏠: Give parents simple ways to support learning at home.
Parents often expect to hear from schools only when there’s a problem. Start the year off on a positive note by sending a note or postcard (yes, snail mail!) or making a call with good news can be a powerful surprise.
Examples:
“__________ had a great day! She found several ways to solve a problem in math.”
“__________ was a kind friend and helped another student during reading.”
Parents are often speechless—and many proudly display these messages on the refrigerator! Small gestures like these build trust, connection, and a sense of partnership with families. You can read more about parent communication HERE.
🌟 Quick Tips for Positive Parent Communication:
Be specific 📝: Highlight a particular action or achievement.
Mix it up 🎨: Use calls, notes, or postcards to keep it fresh.
Make it regular ⏰: Send positive messages consistently.
Teaching is more than lesson plans and classroom décor. It’s about community, relationships, and the little moments that make students—and families—feel seen and valued. Even in retirement, I carry these lessons with me, and I hope they inspire other teachers to focus on what truly matters: kindness, connection, and celebrating every small success along the way.
Have a great start to the year! Click on the links below for more teaching ideas.
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